Lent with the Wisdom Literature (Day 6)
March 10, 2025
Fr. John Colacino C.PP.S.
Sirach Ch 6 (First Monday of Lent)
 

Do not become an enemy instead of a friend; for a bad name incurs shame and reproach;  so it is with the double-tongued sinner. 

Do not fall into the grip of passion, or you may be torn apart as by a bull. 
Your leaves will be devoured and your fruit destroyed, and you will be left like a withered tree. 
Evil passion destroys those who have it, and makes them the laughing-stock of their enemies. 


Pleasant speech multiplies friends, and a gracious tongue multiplies courtesies. 
Let those who are friendly with you be many, but let your advisers be one in a thousand. 
When you gain friends, gain them through testing, and do not trust them hastily. 
For there are friends who are such when it suits them, but they will not stand by you in time of trouble. 
And there are friends who change into enemies, and tell of the quarrel to your disgrace. 
And there are friends who sit at your table, but they will not stand by you in time of trouble. 
When you are prosperous, they become your second self, and lord it over your servants; 
but if you are brought low, they turn against you, and hide themselves from you. 
Keep away from your enemies, and be on guard with your friends. 

Faithful friends are a sturdy shelter: whoever finds one has found a treasure. 
Faithful friends are beyond price; no amount can balance their worth. 
Faithful friends are life-saving medicine; and those who fear the Lord will find them. 
Those who fear the Lord direct their friendship aright, for as they are, so are their neighbours also. 


My child, from your youth choose discipline, and when you have grey hair you will still find wisdom. 
Come to her like one who ploughs and sows, and wait for her good harvest.
For when you cultivate her you will toil but little, and soon you will eat of her produce. 
She seems very harsh to the undisciplined; fools cannot remain with her. 
She will be like a heavy stone to test them, and they will not delay in casting her aside. 
For wisdom is like her name; she is not readily perceived by many. 


Listen, my child, and accept my judgement; do not reject my counsel. 
Put your feet into her fetters, and your neck into her collar. 
Bend your shoulders and carry her, and do not fret under her bonds. 
Come to her with all your soul, and keep her ways with all your might. 
Search out and seek, and she will become known to you; and when you get hold of her, do not let her go. 
For at last you will find the rest she gives, and she will be changed into joy for you. 
Then her fetters will become for you a strong defence, and her collar a glorious robe. 
Her yoke is a golden ornament, and her bonds a purple cord. 
You will wear her like a glorious robe, and put her on like a splendid crown. 


If you are willing, my child, you can be disciplined, and if you apply yourself you will become clever. 
If you love to listen you will gain knowledge, and if you pay attention you will become wise. 
Stand in the company of the elders.
Who is wise? Attach yourself to such a one. 
Be ready to listen to every godly discourse, and let no wise proverbs escape you. 
If you see an intelligent person, rise early to visit him; let your foot wear out his doorstep. 
Reflect on the statutes of the Lord, and meditate at all times on his commandments.
It is he who will give insight to your mind, and your desire for wisdom will be granted.

Commentary

I do not presume the power to explain the dignity of so great a matter; for in all the affairs of mankind nothing more sacred is aimed at, nothing more profitable is sought, nothing is more difficult to find, nothing is sweeter to experience, nothing is more fruitful to retain than friendship, for it bears fruit both in this life and in the next. It flowers all the virtues with its sweetness; it chokes the vices by its power; it tempers adversity and brings settled prosperity; indeed without a friend almost nothing can be pleasant among humans. A man should be likened to an animal if he has no one to rejoice with him in prosperity and to lament with him in sadness; no one to whom he can relieve his mind if it is filled with some unpleasant thought and with whom he can share any unusually lofty or brilliant idea. Woe to him who is alone when he falls and has not another to lift him up. He is indeed alone who has no friend. But what happiness it is, what freedom from care, what pleasure to have one to whom you dare to speak as freely as to yourself; to whom you are not afraid to confess if you have done any wrong; to whom you do not hesitate to reveal any advance you may have made in spiritual things; to whom you may entrust all the secrets of your heart and commit your plans!
 
What then is more pleasant than to write mind to mind in such a way that the two become one, no boasting need be feared, no suspicion dreaded, so that no rebuke of the one by the other cause pain, nor praise be taken as the ground for a charge of flattery? A friend, says the wise man, is an elixir of life. That indeed is a very great truth. For there is no healing treatment that is stronger, more effective, or more remarkable for our wounds in all temporal affairs than to have someone to come to our help in every misfortune, to congratulate us at any good fortune, as the Apostle says, Bear one another's burdens, shoulder to shoulder, unless perhaps each man finds his own burden lighter to bear than that of his friend. Friendship then makes prosperity even more brilliant, dividing adversity and sharing the lighter burdens. The best elixir of life then is a friend; just as it was the pleasure even of pagans, we do not make as universal use of water or fire as of a friend. In every action, in every pursuit, whether we are in doubt or certain, in any event, in any fortune, publicly or privately, in every discussion, at home or away from home, friendship is everywhere welcome, a friend is needful, kindness is always found useful. Moreover, what is more important than all these, friendship is a sort of step closely approaching to perfection, which consists of the love and recognition of God; so that a man from being a man's friend may become a friend of God, as our Saviour says in the Gospel. No longer do I call you servants, but my friends. (St. Aelred of Rievaulx)
 
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Collect

Turn back our hearts to you, O God our Saviour,
and instruct our minds in heavenly wisdom,
that through the practices of Lent
we may advance in your love and favour.
We ask this through our Lord Jesus Christ, your Son,
who lives and reigns with you in the unity of the Holy Spirit,
God for ever and ever. Amen.

 

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