
Introit
Collect
Look upon us, O God,
Creator and ruler of all things,
and, that we may feel the working of your mercy,
grant that we may serve you with all our heart.
Through our Lord Jesus Christ, your Son,
who lives and reigns with you in the unity of the Holy Spirit,
God, for ever and ever. Amen.
First Reading Sir 27:30-28:7
Anger and wrath, these are abominations, yet a sinner holds on to them. 1 The vengeful will face the Lord’s vengeance, for he keeps a strict account of their sins. 2 Forgive your neighbour the wrong that is done, and then your sins will be pardoned when you pray. 3 Does anyone harbour anger against an other, and expect healing from the Lord? 4 If one has no mercy toward an other like oneself, can one then seek pardon for one’s own sins? 5 If a mere mortal harbours wrath, who will make an atoning sacrifice for that one’s sins? 6 Remember the end of your life, and set enmity aside; remember corruption and death, and be true to the commandments. 7 Remember the commandments, and do not be angry with your neighbour; remember the covenant of the Most High, and overlook faults.
Responsorial Psalm Ps 103:1-2,3-4,9-10,11-12
R. The Lord is kind and merciful, slow to anger, and rich in compassion.
Second Reading Rom 14:7-9
My brothers and sisters, 7 we do not live to ourselves, and we do not die to ourselves. 8 If we live, we live to the Lord, and if we die, we die to the Lord; so then, whether we live or whether we die, we are the Lord’s. 9 For to this end Christ died and lived again, so that he might be Lord of both the dead and the living.
Alleluia Jn 13:34
Gospel Mt 18:21-35
Peter came and said to Jesus, “Lord, a brother or sister sins against me, how often should I forgive? As many as seven times?” 22 Jesus said to him, “Not seven times, but, I tell you, seventy-seven times. 23 “For this reason the kingdom of heaven may be compared to a king who wished to settle accounts with his slaves. 24 When he began the reckoning, one who owed him ten thousand talents was brought to him; 25 and, as he could not pay, his lord ordered him to be sold, together with his wife and children and all his possessions, and payment to be made. 26 So the slave fell on his knees before him, saying, ‘Have patience with me, and I will pay you everything.’ 27 The lord of that slave released him and forgave him the debt. 28 “But that same slave, as he went out, came upon one of his fellow slaves who owed him a hundred denarii; and seizing him by the throat, he said, ‘Pay what you owe.’ 29 Then his fellow slave fell down and pleaded with him, ‘Have patience with me, and I will pay you.’ 30 But he refused; then he went and threw him into prison until he would pay the debt. 31 “When his fellow slaves saw what had happened, they were greatly distressed, and they went and reported to their lord all that had taken place. 32 Then his lord summoned him and said to him, ‘You wicked slave! I forgave you all that debt because you pleaded with me. 33 Should you not have had mercy on your fellow slave, as I had mercy on you?’ 34 And in anger his lord handed him over to be tortured until he would pay his entire debt. 35 “So my heavenly Father will also do to every one of you, if you do not forgive your brother or sister from your heart.”
Catena Nova
Putting up with annoying people: This too is a work of mercy, and we don’t always recognize it as such. Living side by side, we Christians certainly try to love one another according to Jesus’ example and commandment. But despite everyone’s good will, occasionally people with very different personalities end up living together. Thus it is comforting to know that to put up with others is a work of mercy: to endure their behavior, their awkward manner, their nagging; basically to lovingly disregard what are really minor shortcomings. Similar to feeding the hungry and visiting the sick, this is one of the works that will be asked of us at our final examination (Chiara Lubich).
God's forgiveness is unconditional; it comes from a heart that does not demand anything for itself, a heart that is completely empty of self-seeking. It is this divine forgiveness that I have to practice in my daily life. It tells me to keep stepping over all my arguments that say forgiveness is unwise, unhealthy, and impractical. It challenges me to step over all my needs for gratitude and compliments. Finally, it demands of me that I step over that wounded part of my heart that feels hurt and wronged and that wants to stay in control and put a few conditions between me and the one I am asked to forgive. This "stepping over" is the authentic discipline of forgiveness (Henri Nouwen).
Today’s parable helps us to grasp fully the meaning of that phrase we recite in the Lord’s Prayer: “And forgive us our trespasses, as we forgive those who trespass against us” (see Mt 6:12). These words contain a decisive truth. We cannot demand God’s forgiveness for ourselves if we in turn do not grant forgiveness to our neighbour. It is a condition. Think of your end, of God’s forgiveness, and stop hating. Reject resentment, that bothersome fly that keeps coming back. If we do not strive to forgive and to love, we will not be forgiven and loved either. (Pope Francis)
Homily
Now where might we find a living parable to highlight Jesus' own? Well, I'd like to tell you about two sisters both of whom had siblings — one a sister, the other a brother. The first is Sr. Jean Klimczak — a Sister of St. Joseph from Buffalo — whose sister Karen, also a member of that order, ran a halfway house for ex-cons to help offenders transition back into society. Craig Lynch, 36, was a parolee staying at the shelter. He attacked and killed Sr. Karen when she walked in on him stealing her cell phone to feed his drug addiction. At his sentencing Sr. Jean read from a letter Sr. Karen wrote 15 years earlier, having had a premonition something like this would happen to her. The letter read in part:
“Dear Brother, I don’t know what the circumstances are that will lead you to hurt me or destroy my physical body. No, I don’t want it to happen. I would much rather enjoy the beauties of this earth, experience the laughter, the fears and the tears of those I love so deeply! .... Now my life is changed, and you, my brother, were the instrument of that change. I forgive you for what you have done and I will always watch over you, help you in whatever way I can. . . . .The most difficult experiences in life can sometimes reap the greatest growth for us ... God bless!”
Craig died in prison on June 28th of this year — a little over 20 years since that day in the courtroom. In April a Buffalo TV station ran a piece to commemorate the anniversary. It highlighted how her legacy lives on at Bissonette House where she was killed. The Sisters of St. Joseph have also established a center for nonviolence named after her while her deat sparked the “I Leave Peaceprints” with the peace dove as its symbol. Sr. Jean remembers how, "Karen told me, 'You leave your fingerprints on everything. We need to be people who leave imprints of peace wherever we go in our world.' That's what she was about and that is what she challenged others to do."
Then there's Roseline Hamel, sister of French priest Fr. Jacque Hamel. He was killed in Normandy while saying Mass in a terrorist attack in 2016 committed by two Muslim teenagers, both of whom were killed by police. Her story involves the mother of one of the boys, Nasser Kermiche. Overcome by grief it dawned on Roseline one day that the mothers of the two boys must also be suffering. After much prayer she "imagined [one of the mother's] pain, her torment and the months of struggle she had endured with her young son, who had allowed himself to be drawn down a path his mother would never have wanted for him." That realization moved her to get in touch with Nasser, first on the phone with brief conversations and finally in person.
When they finally met in person at Roseline's home, the first words out of Nassera's mouth were, "Forgive me, forgive me" — though nothing implicated her or her husband in their son's actions. Further encounters, conferences and a book followed as they became "sisters in sorrow." In a recent interview, Roseline had this to say about their ongoing collaboration:
against all expectations, it is possible to meet one another beyond pain, beyond an offence, beyond criticism, beyond prejudice and beyond our differences. That is the meaning of our example and our testimony. Because Nassera and I dared to meet one another, together we rediscovered our inner peace, a new breath of life and a strength of hope that we believed had been lost forever. I therefore address this message to everyone: let us dare to encounter one another beyond our differences and our prejudices. To encounter God is to encounter the other. These phrases may sound ordinary, but they carry a precious weight. By daring to reach out to the other—to embrace their differences, their trials and their suffering—our encounters build up humanity, strengthen fraternity and leave no room for hatred, revenge or violence. (August 24, 2026)
Intercessions
For the grace to forgive those who have wronged us: that God will free our hearts to forgive others as God forgives us.
For a deep awareness of God’s boundless forgiveness: that in the midst of our weaknesses, we may recognize how God’s forgiveness sustains us each day.
For all who have injured or wronged us: that God’s love will heal them and us so that we may walk together again in God’s service.
For healing of anger and resentment: that the Spirit will heal those painful experiences and free us to live fully for Christ.
For freedom from vengeance and retaliation: that God will turn hearts from violence and increase our desire to seek the good for each person.
For all who have experienced violence, terrorism, or war: that God will help them break the cycle of violence and make life giving choices out of their pain.
For a healing of the nations: that world leaders may lay aside pride, image and threats so that the greater good may be advanced for all the human family.
For nations and communities in strife: that God will bring an end to violence and chaos in cities and the countryside, and open a pathway for justice and peace to be established.
For all who have been impacted by weather events: that God will give them strength, protect them from harm and give them hope.
For relief and aid workers: that God will renew their strength, keep them safe in their service, and sustain their families and loved ones.
For the members of Congress: that God will give them wisdom and insight as they debate and develop policies on immigration and refugee assistance.
For greater stewardship of the earth: that God will help us recognize the consequences of our actions and the impact that chemical usage will have on future generations.
O God most high, you are slow to anger and rich in compassion. Keep alive in us the memory of your mercy, that our angers may be calmed and our resentments dispelled. May we discover the forgiveness promised to those who forgive and become a people rich in mercy. We ask this through Christ our Lord. Amen.
Offertory Antiphon
Offertory Hymn
'Forgive our sins as we forgive,'
you taught us, Lord, to pray,
but you alone can grant us grace
to live the words we say.
How can your pardon reach and bless
the unforgiving heart,
that broods on wrongs and will not let
old bitterness depart?
In blazing light your cross reveals
the truth we dimly knew:
what trivial debts are owed to us,
how great our debt to you!
Lord, cleanse the depths within our souls,
and bid resentment cease;
then, bound to all in bonds of love,
our lives will spread your peace.
Communion Antiphon
Closing Hymn
There's a wideness in God's mercy
like the wideness of the sea;
there's a kindness in his justice,
which is more than liberty.
There is welcome for the sinner,
and more graces for the good;
there is mercy with the Savior;
there is healing in his blood.
There is no place where earth's sorrows
are more felt than in heaven;
there is no place where earth's failings
have such kind judgment given.
There is plentiful redemption
in the blood that has been shed;
there is joy for all the members
in the sorrows of the Head.
For the love of God is broader
than the measure of man's mind;
and the heart of the Eternal
is most wonderfully kind.
If our love were but more faithful,
we should take him at his word;
and our life would be thanksgiving
for the goodness of the Lord.